"If nothing changes, nothing changes."

"If nothing changes, nothing changes."

This one little saying has the potential to transform us in our relationships---Oh yeah?

Who would've thought it ...isn't this too simplistic?

But is it not cbvious that if nothing changes, nothing changes?!

Take a second and think about your family life, your relationships with your spouse, kids, parents, siblings, other relatives. Is there anything in those relationships that you wish was different? How about the way you speak to each other? Or the way you solve disagreements? Is there an elephant in the room whenever you get together? Is there an aspect of your relationship that repeatedly grates your nerves? Do you have something in mind? OK, good. Now, what are you doing to make it better? At the risk of sounding unsympathetic, much of the time, change really is that easy....just change!

The South-South zone of the PRONACO is going into a pre-National Conference mini-Conference beginning in Calaber, the capital city of Nigeria's tourists'-canaan, the Cross River State, on Sunday September 11, 2005.

This giant of Africa NEEDS positive change FAST, if it's not to implode in our faces sooner than even the grim forecasters of doom expect! And the South-South zone, finally, holds the key to this nation's survival (or otherwise!)...it therefore is crucial that every stakeholder in the prosperous future of Nigeria actively impacts Sunday's programme as positively and urgently as possible!

Which is why I am joining the Dokubos and Dokpesis and Douglases and Dukes of this nation in Calabar ...to seek peaceful alternatives to the loud drums of conflict being encouraged and thumped by many anti-Nigerians who do not belong to the South-South, but who would love to prod this normally peaceful zone of Nigeria into being the catalyst for Nigeria's destruction...there is urgent need for change...if we do not change our downhill course, we're surely fated to self-destruct!

And we do not intend to give the devil and his minions that pleasure...No way!

Shalom!!!